When Does a Guest Become a Tenant?

Written on June 6, 2016 by , updated on December 9, 2016

Guest becomes a tenant New roommates, visiting family, new boyfriends, and live-in nannies are all common scenarios. But when does a guest become a tenant?

What’s the Difference?

There is a thin line between what defines a guest and a tenant. Guests can be a huge liability if they start acting like tenants.

Some landlords would respond by saying “a tenant is someone who is one lease”. While true, this doesn’t account for guests that have taken up residence in your rental without your permission. Built into the tenant’s right of quiet enjoyment, guests are certainly allowed, but rogue tenants are not.

It’s extremely important for any adult occupant who is living there, to be on the lease. Otherwise, there is no legal accountability for them.

Examples of Tenants vs. Guests

 
TENANT
GUEST
College KidsReturning home for the summer or because they dropped outReturning home for Weekends, Spring/Winter Breaks, but always goes back to school.
Elderly Parents Moving in with children because they can no longer take care of themselvesVisiting children for a brief few weeks, or to help with a new child
Boyfriend, Girlfriend or FriendSpending most days and nights there - for weeks/months at a timeOnly visiting during the day, no matter how frequent
Hired Help, Nanny or Farm HandLiving on the propertyOnly on-site during normal business hours
Au PairLiving on the propertyBy definition, they live with the family, so they will always be a tenant.

Warning signs that a guest has become a tenant:

  • Guests who pay rent
  • Guests are receiving mail at the property
  • Guests that spend every night at the property
  • Guests that have moved-in furniture or pets
  • Guests that make maintenance requests

Other Considerations

  1. State laws are different regarding this issue, so be sure to check out Landlordology’s state guides to research this issue for yourself.
  2. This issue of how long a guest can stay should be addressed in your lease, such as no more than 10-14 days in any six-month period. 14 days should be enough time for any one friend or relative to visit in a six month period.

Related: 

Should You Add the Guest to the Lease?

Again, it’s extremely important, and an industry best practice, for any adult occupant who is living there, to be on the lease. This is so 1) they are obligated to the lease, and 2) you know who is living there.

Confrontation is Uncomfortable

Most landlords I talk to prefer to ask the current tenant to add the new roommate to the lease. Yes, this is an uncomfortable conversation, but it’s also an opportunity to talk about renewing the lease at a higher rate and for a longer term!

The alternative is to serve the original tenant with a lease violation notice, and threaten to terminate the agreement.

Factors to Consider

Many of the factors that you should consider when trying to convert a guest to a tenant are:

  1. length of stay;
  2. existence of a lease or other “special contract for the room;”
  3. receipt of mail;
  4. access to cooking facilities;
  5. degree of control over the space (such as whether the person has his or her own key);
  6. whether the person has another residence; and
  7. the extent to which the person has made the dwelling his or her home for the time being

At the end of the day, give it the “Duck Test“:

If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.

Take Preemptive Action

This whole situation of a guest becoming a tenant is fairly easy to avoid if you have a candid conversation with the current tenant explaining what is and is not allowed. The issue should also be addressed in your lease, and you could even ask your tenant to initial beside the lease portion that addresses this issue.

If you accept rent from a guest, you might have initiated a landlord-tenant relationship. If that is true, your new tenant might now have the same rights as any other tenant and will not be easy to remove, as a simple trespasser can.

It’s also a good idea to consult an attorney before the issue actually warrants one. That way, you can proceed with the right course of action as directed by the attorney.

Related: Never Accept Rent from a Non-Tenant

What Others Have to Say

Depending on the individual state laws with respect to the issue, once someone has started receiving mail at an address they have established residency. That can be done without someone actually occupying a property. If the guest spends more than half a month at a place they could also be considered a tenant at that point as well. Our lease forbids more than 14 nights in a month for anyone not named on the lease for this reason.
— Brian Levredge, First Property Management

For us, it’s not a big deal so long as the tenant on the lease still lives there and is current with the rent. We don’t allow our tenants to sublet without written permission which normally involves a new set of paperwork.
— Aaron Kinney Mobile Home Park Owner 

Summary – Prepare, don’t React

This very important issue will probably come up if you are a landlord for any length of time. The time to prepare for this situation is before it happens, not when it is happening.

If you have ever had a guest become a tenant, let me know in the comments how you handled it!

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116 CommentsLeave a Comment

  • Logan

    I pay rent (cash) I receive mail have my own keys and receive mail and I’m being asked to leave for no reason what’s my rights?

    • Joni James

      I receive mail have a key, dont pay rent but do odd jobs and run errands for this elderly disabled lady….she even refers to spare bedroom as mine. Her daughterand grandson are coming from texas and she wants me to leave….what are my rights

    • Stacy Clermont

      I was invited to come live with my Mother and after 2 days , she became hostile and was telling me to get out for no apparent reason. What are my rights?
      I have been here 10 days.

  • Micheal dodson

    I have been here for over 2 months and they know my truck is broke down and parts will be here in 10 days or less. I have already changed my address and use their p.o. box also this is in waldport oregon.
    Now i had recently been in a relationship with the kady that owns the houses best freind.. things soured a bit we broke up due to shes just a plain out mean person.. she wanted to barrow money for her rent so i handed her 200 bucks after the owner said i stated i would so after that she supisedly was sleepung and i was crying to the owner ny exes best freind and next things shes up kicking me hiting me and yells at her freind tskes her money as well leaves and niw the next day i get told i got to go. Ni wheels weather and i kniw noone here

  • Micheal

    I moved here over 2 months ago and they know my truck is broke down and parts will be here in 10 days or less. I have already changed my address and use their p.o. box also this is in waldport oregon.
    Now i had recently been in a relationship with the kady that owns the houses best freind.. things soured a bit we broke up due to shes just a plain out mean person.. she wanted to barrow money for her rent so i handed her 200 bucks after the owner said i stated i would so after that she supisedly was sleepung and i was crying to the owner ny exes best freind and next things shes up kicking me hiting me and yells at her freind tskes her money as well leaves and niw the next day i get told i got to go. Ni wheels weather and i kniw noone here

  • Terri Orozco

    A friend said I could live at her house while I got on my feet my brokedown vsn is in her backyard she told me to leave after two weeks

  • Joy

    In your example, when you say: “The Premises shall be used and occupied by Tenant(s), for no more than FIVE (5) persons exclusively, as a private individual dwelling…”

    does that mean that if there are two tenants permanently living in the unit, they can have up to 3 guests? Or is 5 the number of tenants?

    Would you clarify, please?

    Thank you!

  • Hannah

    I’m currently living in an apartment and my boyfriend comes to the place often to hangout or go eat. He will stay sometimes and now my apartment is telling me i need to add him to the lease which doesn’t sound fair at all. It also states that even babysitters have to be added to the lease? That’s crazy. If anyone is there 10 consecutive days or 20 days IN A YEAR they have to be added to the lease….. what are my rights please help!!

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